Sunu Sugreev marihau Balihi ekahim baan/
Brahma Rudra saranagat gaye na ubarihi praan//
The Lord said: ‘Listen, Sugreev! I shall kill Bali with a single arrow. His life cannot be saved even if he approaches Brahma or Rudra.’
Je na mitra dukh hohim dukhari/ Tinhahi bilokat patak bhari//
Nij dukh giri sam raj kari jaana/Mitrak dukh raj meru samaana//
The one who is not pained by his friend’s pain, is not worthy.( It is a sin to see such a person ) The true friend views his own mountain like trouble like a speck of dust and the dust like pain of his friend like a huge mountain.
Jinh kem asi mati sahaj na aayi/Te sad kat hadi karat mitayi//
Kripadh nivari supandh chalava/ Gun pragatai avagunaninh durava//
Those who are incapable of such discernment by nature, why should they try to make friends at all? It is the dharma of a friend that he stops one from going down the wrong path and point out the correct way. He should help the best qualities to grace his friend and the bad qualities to take a back seat.
Det let man sank na dharayi/ Bal anuman sada hit karayi//
Bipati kal kar satgun neha/ Shruti kah sant mitra gun eha//
He will have no doubts in his mind during any giving or taking with his friend.( His interactions are pure). He will always do the best as per his capability for his friend. During times of adversity he shall love his friend a hundred times more than usual. (Stand lovingly by his side) The Vedas proclaim that the signs of a superior friend are these.
Aagem kah mridu bachan banayi/Pachem anahit man kutilayi//
Jakar chit ahi gati sam bhai/ As kumitra pariharehim bhalayi//
The one who will approach you sweetly and pretend to be very nice but bitterly backbite you in your absence( gossip about you behind your back), the one who is wicked in reality, and his mind is crooked like a serpent’s path- it is better to forgo such a person ( bad friend) from your life!
Sevak sad nrip kripan kunary/ Kapati mitra sool sam chary//
Sakha such tyagahu bal morem/ Sab bidhi ghatab kaj mai torem//
A foolish servant, a miserly king, a treacherous woman, and a deceitful friend- these four hurt grievously like a sharp spear.Hey Friend! You leave your worries to me now. I will help you in all ways.